I’m teetering between the exquisite dream that maybe you’re still out there, waiting to meet me, and one day we’ll cross paths and begin building our lives together………… & the thought that maybe this is all just an extravagant game, and the best way to survive is to play & to play dirty…To the victor go the spoils right?

So which is real? It all seems equally illogical when you really think about it-all of us spending our youth running around looking for that perfect mate, curling up in a lonely bed every night & drifting off to sleep with the thought that there is someone out there that would fit so perfectly into your world.. and into that empty spot in your bed. I guess I just want something/someone to believe in.

I’m 25. I’m new to this city. Ive got some extra padding on my body in places, but I wouldnt label myself as a overweight- Im pretty comfortable with my body & I want you to be comfortable with yours. I like grand food but that doesnt mean I dont do junk food. I love to go camping, explore the wilderness-but I have a lot to learn. I like to drink with friends and know my way around good beers, liquor & wine- it all depends on the occasion. I only smoke sometimes when I drink but that doesnt mean I care if you do. I’m good friends with the 420, and it’s cool if you dont partake, as long as you dont care if I do. Im definitely in the femme category, and I tend to go for the softer-butchies/butch. I love a woman with a unique style, as long as that style keeps room for femininity. I usually date women older than me-but if you can drink legally & hold an interesting, intelligent conversation, you’re in…But butch or femme, if you’re the girl I’ve been looking for, I dont care if you’re purple! Im attracted to women who are aggressive when it comes to getting what they want (in bed & in life); ambitious with their futures & eager to reach their goals and establish new ones; and resiliant in tough times (because everyone has them). I know everyone has baggage & I can help ‘unpack’ yours if you’ll do the same for me.

I want a woman with a sense of humor, a woman with the ‘i’ll try anything once’ attitude. Im not the judgmental type so dont be scared to reveal your faults to me-I have plenty of my own. I want a woman that doesnt lie. I need a woman who isn’t reckless with someone elses emotions & who doesnt put up with people who are reckless with theirs.

DONT respond with 3 lines, telling me your name, age and some BS about how much you liked my posting- give me your info, write about yourself, ask questions!

DONT respond if you’re looking for a threesome

DONT respond if you’re looking for a hookup but also,

DONT respond if you’re the type to rush relationships.

DONT respond without a pic- I’ve got lots & they’ll be all yours as long as I get some from you.

And most importantly,

DONT respond if EVERY part of this posting didnt appeal to you….