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		<title>Country/Hick/Sports/Outdoors/LTR/Bear/Dad/Cub (Seattle/Tacoma) 43yr</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 16:58:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Masculine, shaved head, facial hair...Looking for a Cub, Daddy, Bear Type...Looking LTR Only, Not Looking to Hookup...Must have a current face pic, or NO Response...Looking for a guy who likes sports, college football, basketball, campfires, camping, b...]]></description>
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		<title>discreet bottom looking for top  &#8211; m4m (syr ) 27yr</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 16:55:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[discreet bottom looking for a hookup today. im 5'7 170 lbs , 7" cut ddf . hairy. poppers and 420 friendly loking for someone that can host and who is under 40 in good shape and well hung is a big plus. please have pic in your reply. also interested in ...]]></description>
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		<title>Sexy young housekeeper wanted! (Gresham)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 16:14:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello, I'm looking for a freindly, sexy young housekeeper for long term. I work a lot, but I'd like to be able to come home to a clean house and maybe a GFE situation. 18-24 preferred. I pay well. I like the shy, submissive, do what you're asked type o...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hello, I'm looking for a freindly, sexy young housekeeper for long term. I work a lot, but I'd like to be able to come home to a clean house and maybe a GFE situation. 18-24 preferred. I pay well. I like the shy, submissive, do what you're asked type of girls. I'm a good looking guy, own a local business, I don't have any problems getting dates, but I'm just tired of the whole dating hookup game.. Thanks for reading. <br>
<br>
PS- I would keep you covered for 420..<br>
<br>
And put housekeeper in the reply, so I don't keep getting spammed..?<!-- START CLTAGS -->


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		<title>Ass Worship (richmond) 59yr</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 14:17:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Older $generous$ gentleman who visits Richmond several days a month seeking a clean,disease free female who
enjoys having analingus performed on her.Only penetration required will be via tongue.Would like someone
who drinks socially,420 friendly,enjoys...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Older $generous$ gentleman who visits Richmond several days a month seeking a clean,disease free female who<br>
enjoys having analingus performed on her.Only penetration required will be via tongue.Would like someone<br>
who drinks socially,420 friendly,enjoys dining out.Would like to make this a monthly encounter,not a 1 night<br>
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		<title>Dirty BBW?NSA?420 hookup? &#8211; m4w (Madison west side only) 42yr</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 13:51:41 +0000</pubDate>
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You Must Host
West side only
Day time hookups preferred 
Pic for Pic
Put " BBW " in subject line to Weed out the spam
Hit me back



 Location: Madison west side onl...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Looking for a Cute BBW who is 420 friendly and wants to hookup<br>
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Day time hookups preferred <br>
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Put " BBW " in subject line to Weed out the spam<br>
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		<title>scorpio420 bbc &#8211; m4ww (southwest) 30yr</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 13:31:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>What a windy night&#8230;&#8230; (Nampa) 27yr</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 13:20:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I would like to meet someone who is established in their life, no drama, and understands that a relationship is a two way street. I am a single, never married, hardworking woman that has my own place, nice car, and is financially secure. In no way am I...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I would like to meet someone who is established in their life, no drama, and understands that a relationship is a two way street. I am a single, never married, hardworking woman that has my own place, nice car, and is financially secure. In no way am I looking for a casual hookup or a friends with benefits situation. Personally, I believe that sex is something sacred between two people that trust each other. That is something that takes time to develop. So, if you're expecting sex right away, I am NOT the girl for you. I am not religious however I have morals. <br>
<br>
As far as appearance I am about 5'6'' brown hair blue eyes. I am full figured so if you're not a guy comfortable with curves or don't appreciate a "BBW" move on. I am confident with who I am and understand everyone who their own preferences. What I'm interested in is a man who is taller than me, on the husky side. I don't want to feel like I can break you (sorry to the skinny guys). Not too fond of kids. It's not a deal breaker as long as they are well behaved. <br>
<br>
Non smokers are a plus. Smelling like an ash tray is a major turn off. If you do any sort of drug please don't bother. I am strongly against all drugs including 420!! Drinking is ok. I enjoy a night out here and there or a glass of wine. <br>
<br>
Send an email with a bit about you and I will send my photo in return. I look forward to making a connection with someone and possibly meeting up this weekend!!<!-- START CLTAGS -->


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		<title>morning or afternoon hookup &#8211; m4m (east of ashville)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 10:36:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[im looking for a partner for mutual oral ,maybe more .. wednesday morning or afternoon .i can send a pic if you can .
  we can sort out hosting , ill get a room if thats what it takes, with 420 goes to the front of the line .



 Location: east of ashv...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[im looking for a partner for mutual oral ,maybe more .. wednesday morning or afternoon .i can send a pic if you can .<br>
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		<title>This is what I want, updated. (Eugene) 46yr</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 08:57:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the past I have lived by chance and pretty much accepted what came my way, but I never admitted to myself what I really want.  So here goes:  I want a lady who is fairly easy going, but isn't afraid to state what she wants and needs.  I want a lady ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In the past I have lived by chance and pretty much accepted what came my way, but I never admitted to myself what I really want.  So here goes:  I want a lady who is fairly easy going, but isn't afraid to state what she wants and needs.  I want a lady who will be my friend at first, my best friend a bit later on, and come to the point where she can take me for granted.  I want a lady who will talk to me about her fears, loves, heartaches.  I want a lady who will discuss crazy far out things like aliens and God and the gods.  I want a lady who dresses fairly nice most of the time, but isn't all primpy and proper.  Ideally she will be capable of leaving the house within 30 minutes of getting out of bed... sunshine is precious to me and not to be wasted.  She should feel that way too.  <br>
<br>
Physically I want a lady who has straight brown hair and blue eyes... shorter than 5' 5" and weighs less than me (150)... that is my ideal, but her personality will win me in the end.  She must be active, love the outdoors, animals, wilderness, and actually go hiking and camping and maybe river rafting or anything under the sun that works up a sweat or a happy buzz.  She will be ok with an occasional drink... maybe even getting drunk on a Friday night.  Shots of tequila won't be out of the question, but drunkenness will be far and few between.  She will have 420 in her history or friends who did so that she won't turn her nose up to my friends.    I don't do the 420 anymore and if she does, it will be occasional... not every day.  She will be between the ages of 36 and 41, but that isn't a strict thing, just the ideal.   She will have decent figure, but not perfect by any means.  I will find her sexy and pretty... and as she ages and more wrinkles come in, I will still see the young girl inside.  When we make love, she will be 20 again and she will know she is loved.  <br>
<br>
She will understand that I can't stop loving those who I have truly loved in the past and I will understand the same of her.  We will both know that those old loves have turned into friendship and understand the sacred bond of trust we share together.<br>
<br>
She will be happy, but capable of expressing anger.  She will be joyous, but capable of confrontation.  She will call on the phone and not hide behind email. She will trust me enough to drop by unannounced... and be able to accept that she is more than welcome, her company is desired. She will be nice to those she meets and strangers on the streets, but like anyone she will have days of frustration.  She will not hold those things inside, but instead live authentically and express her spirit.  She is beautiful inside and out and she knows it.  She will not be scared of marriage or living together when that time comes.  She will not have suffered so much abuse at the hands of an ex (at least not physical abuse or severe verbal abuse) that she can't heal at least most of her pain and live free.  She will not be bipolar, but will be capable of being unreasonable when upset.  She will know how, be able, and want to forgive.<br>
<br>
I will be the man I have always been.  I will love her and lift her up and that will be easy, because we will fit each other.  I will work to build a future for us and she will do that too.  I will live up to my promises and do the things I say.  She will too.  I will take her on trips to the coast, to the rivers and mountain tops so that the world can hear and see her laugh. I will show her off and be proud that I could know someone so beautiful. We will have good times and bad times, happy and sorrowful, but we will be together and that will give us the power to walk boldly in this world.<br>
<br>
Sex will be amazing because our love for each other will help us be open about what we like and need.  We will cuddle after making love and sleep together till morning when we will smell each others bad breath and not care. We will laugh about last night when it was fun and cry together when it was tragic... and we will know each other in a way few people do.<br>
<br>
We will grow old together and be the best of friends until death takes us from this temporary world.<br>
<br>
I look forward to meeting you... my lady.<br>
<br>
Updated:<br>
Of course, I do have faults.  I am Irish and I do have a bit of the temper...my girl won't be scared of that.  I control it well. I never direct it at people and as I said above, she will be perfectly capable of being unreasonable when upset too.  I have great friends, but most of them moved away over the last few years, so I need new ones I can hang with...  I have a good sense of humor and I am a loyal friend...  I will defend you even when I know you are wrong.  My last LTR was over a few months ago... and I won't do the rebound thing.  If you think you would like to know me, it will be slow going for a while.  Friends first, and that will probably include my ex... we are still friends, her family is mine and always will be.<br>
<br>
A few emails to start, but not endless... and I will be brutally honest, please be the same about yourself.<br>
<br>
A face to face is the only way we will know if there is a connection to pursue, but I am a busy full time student.  I will make time for those I think might fit.  My cell minutes are maxed for the month, so phone calls are possible after 9:00pm, but I won't call unless I know it is ok to call that late... so if you want me to call... let me know when you are available. I will be patient with you, please be patient with me.<br>
<br>
Please don't email me looking for a hookup...  I'm really not interested in that.<br>
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		<title>This is what I want. (Eugene) 46yr</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 08:57:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the past I have lived by chance and pretty much accepted what came my way, but I never admitted to myself what I really want.  So here goes:  I want a lady who is fairly easy going, but isn't afraid to state what she wants and needs.  I want a lady ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In the past I have lived by chance and pretty much accepted what came my way, but I never admitted to myself what I really want.  So here goes:  I want a lady who is fairly easy going, but isn't afraid to state what she wants and needs.  I want a lady who will be my friend at first, my best friend a bit later on, and come to the point where she can take me for granted.  I want a lady who will talk to me about her fears, loves, heartaches.  I want a lady who will discuss crazy far out things like aliens and God and the gods.  I want a lady who dresses fairly nice most of the time, but isn't all primpy and proper.  Ideally she will be capable of leaving the house within 30 minutes of getting out of bed... sunshine is precious to me and not to be wasted.  She should feel that way too.  <br>
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Physically I want a lady who has straight brown hair and blue eyes... shorter than 5' 5" and weighs less than me (150)... that is my ideal, but her personality will win me in the end.  She must be active, love the outdoors, animals, wilderness, and actually go hiking and camping and maybe river rafting or anything under the sun that works up a sweat or a happy buzz.  She will be ok with an occasional drink... maybe even getting drunk on a Friday night.  Shots of tequila won't be out of the question, but drunkenness will be far and few between.  She will have 420 in her history or friends who did so that she won't turn her nose up to my friends.    I don't do the 420 anymore and if she does, it will be occasional... not every day.  She will be between the ages of 36 and 41, but that isn't a strict thing, just the ideal.   She will have decent figure, but not perfect by any means.  I will find her sexy and pretty... and as she ages and more wrinkles come in, I will still see the young girl inside.  When we make love, she will be 20 again and she will know she is loved.  <br>
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She will understand that I can't stop loving those who I have truly loved in the past and I will understand the same of her.  We will both know that those old loves have turned into friendship and understand the sacred bond of trust we share together.<br>
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She will be happy, but capable of expressing anger.  She will be joyous, but capable of confrontation.  She will call on the phone and not hide behind email. She will trust me enough to drop by unannounced... and be able to accept that she is more than welcome, her company is desired. She will be nice to those she meets and strangers on the streets, but like anyone she will have days of frustration.  She will not hold those things inside, but instead live authentically and express her spirit.  She is beautiful inside and out and she knows it.  She will not be scared of marriage or living together when that time comes.  She will not have suffered so much abuse at the hands of an ex (at least not physical abuse or severe verbal abuse) that she can't heal at least most of her pain and live free.  She will not be bipolar, but will be capable of being unreasonable when upset.  She will know how, be able, and want to forgive.<br>
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I will be the man I have always been.  I will love her and lift her up and that will be easy, because we will fit each other.  I will work to build a future for us and she will do that too.  I will live up to my promises and do the things I say.  She will too.  I will take her on trips to the coast, to the rivers and mountain tops so that the world can hear and see her laugh. I will show her off and be proud that I could know someone so beautiful. We will have good times and bad times, happy and sorrowful, but we will be together and that will give us the power to walk boldly in this world.<br>
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Sex will be amazing because our love for each other will help us be open about what we like and need.  We will cuddle after making love and sleep together till morning when we will smell each others bad breath and not care. We will laugh about last night when it was fun and cry together when it was tragic... and we will know each other in a way few people do.<br>
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We will grow old together and be the best of friends until death takes us from this temporary world.<br>
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I look forward to meeting you... my lady.<br>
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Updated:<br>
Of course, I do have faults.  I am Irish and I do have a bit of the temper...my girl won't be scared of that.  I control it well. I never direct it at people and as I said above, she will be perfectly capable of being unreasonable when upset too.  I have great friends, but most of them moved away over the last few years, so I need new ones I can hang with...  I have a good sense of humor and I am a loyal friend...  I will defend you even when I know you are wrong.  My last LTR was over a few months ago... and I won't do the rebound thing.  If you think you would like to know me, it will be slow going for a while.  Friends first, and that will probably include my ex... we are still friends, her family is mine and always will be.<br>
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A few emails to start, but not endless... and I will be brutally honest, please be the same about yourself.<br>
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A face to face is the only way we will know if there is a connection to pursue, but I am a busy full time student.  I will make time for those I think might fit.  My cell minutes are maxed for the month, so phone calls are possible after 9:00pm, but I won't call unless I know it is ok to call that late... so if you want me to call... let me know when you are available. I will be patient with you, please be patient with me.<br>
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Please don't email me looking for a hookup...  I'm really not interested in that.<br>
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