I have come to a time (55) and place in life where – contrary to once-sacred suppositions – I very much regret not having a partner. I recognize that older for younger is not everyones cup of tea, but presumably you wouldnt be reading this ad if that were the case. Nor – I should disabuse you from the beginning – would you want to read on if you were looking for a sugar daddy…sorry !
Anyway, I would love to find a guy 20-29ish who has this attraction, and who would be willing to date in expectation that, if things went right, it might lead to a longer-term attachment. You could be hot or you could look nerdy – each has its appeal – or just easy on the eyes. Looking for a fellow Caucasian, which is not a commentary on anything, except a preference, just like I prefer blue shirts to white. Character and personality are more important than anything else.
I would hope you would be interested in complementing my strengths and helping me to work on my weaknesses, as I would wish to do for you in parallel. From the experiences of friends, gay and straight, I realize that a relationship demands a lot of hard work on the part of both, ideally a mixture of curiosity and tolerance at the start that gradually may develop into affection and admiration, then to feeling and devotion, ultimately to love and commitment.
My strengths ? A good sense of humour. Highly literate (write for a living). Well read, with quirky passions from Victorians to Stephen King. Not high-brow culturally, alas – 30 mins in a museum suits me just fine, but I can genuinely appreciate the 30 mins and want to go back for more. Love the odd trip to Las Vegas, movies and tv – reality shows and the audition shows (though not much after) of American Idol for what they reveal of all of our condition, dreams dashed and hopes realized often in the most unlikely way. Am widely traveled. Can laugh at myself. Good cook. Often poke gentle fun at another in an effort to get to know him. Quick on the uptake. Highly organized. Regarded as a good listener and a care bear.
Weaknesses ? Laziness – when I do Atkins and work out I drop 60 pounds – which I need to do. Sometimes doubt others trustworthiness. Sometimes dwell on the past rather than getting on with the future. Probably lots more you will discover lol !
Havent had a whole lot of sex – except with my two good friends right and left hand, and Mssrs Fleshlight and Aneros. This ad isnt for a quick hook-up, anyway; but I am versatile and am also intrigued to explore a little kink like spanking and role playing. Think jockstraps are kinda cool, too. Id love to feel what its like to be fucked – hasnt happened since I was 19 ! Not into drugs except 420 is fine – and only into safe encounters. Expect and give a high degree of discretion: am non-scene.
I hope if this interests you that you will get in touch. Seems obvious that first step would be to meet at a coffee shop, talk a while and see if there is any commonality on which to build. Thanks for reading
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