We are a real couple.. not exactly HWP, not hot and skinny.. but we're friendly and a lot of fun just to hang out with. We're new to the lifestyle, and so we're still trying to sort out where we fit into the scheme of things, and we're looking to make friends, and possibly some connections with like minded people.
She is just turning 40 BBW very sexy, super sweet.. He is 43.. who has been well fed and cared for during the 8 years we've been together. We're good people.. the kind of people you'd be best friends with.. we enjoy Barbeque year round, and hanging at the beach in the summer time (especially if it's at Sauvie) Both of us love to flirt, and carry on with our friends, and we love how the lifestyle allows us to do so guilt free. The problem is... most of our friends are not in the lifestyle..
Here is the important stuff... we're both straight.. she doesn't mind being on the receiving end of some girl on girl stuff.. and will play with a woman up to the point of oral... he is super straight... no male on male stuff here.. not even considering it. The other thing is this... we do EVERYTHING together.. there will not be any seperate room stuff.. we like seeing each other interact with others.. and at this time we're not really considering anything else.. perhaps in time.. but we both see that as far in the future.. and even at that.. a big maybe.
The next thing is this.. we're kind of old fashioned I guess... we enjoy all aspects of the process.... we want to meet you, and become friends, and only then play with you a little before we move to the bedroom. Kind of like vanilla people do things.. we only interact with friends.. we're not into strangers... it keeps us and you safer I think. To us friendships do not develop via e-mail.. and probably not on the first date.. If you are someone who is looking for something more from a friendship with a couple.. hit us up.
We absolutely do not do drugs... not even 420.. if that is you.. don't bother. We don't smoke either.. but are a bit more tolerant of that. We are social drinkers, but we like to keep our wits about us.. the experience is more enjoyable when you're in full control of your impulses. This sounds an awful lot like we're boring... trust me we're not.
We are fairly active members of Club Sesso... and we attend there relatively frequently.. and I guess that is what we're looking for.. friends we can meet there.. hang out with.. flirt with a bit.. and see where it goes. We're also looking for the kind of folks where we can get together outside of the club.. and do stuff.. we want the friends with benefits, you know what I mean? One of my biggest concerns with CL personals.. is there seems to be an awful lot of people who are looking for a quick hookup. If you respond to this ad.. expect to exchange a few e-mails.. and then possibly some online chatting, and then a date.. serious interaction happens when the chemistry kicks in... and we'll all know when that happens.
You must be secure.. we don't want drama.. we hate drama. We're looking for someone like us.. we don't need you to be smokin hot.. but we don't want you the other way either.. average people. Middle aged is ok.. and the spread that goes along with middle age is ok too...and don't think we're putting age restrictions on things.. younger people are ok too.. and even some into their 50's... the important thing is that you need to be personable, fun and friendly.. we're not looking for one sided affairs either.. we're a couple looking for other couples who are both willing to flirt and play equally... no singles please...
Surely there must be others out there like us... hit us up.. we're hoping to meet you!
Be real... please put Friendship First in the subject line on your response so we know you're a real person inlcude a photo of you both..does not need to be nude or risque... when you send them to us..we'll respond in kind... E-mails without "Friendship First" in the subject line, and photos attached will be deleted.
- Location: North of Vancouver
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