People have said really nice things about me. I've been called "loving", "the kindest heart I know", "dependable", "beautiful", "unique", "sexy", and even "golden". These are hard to swallow for me. I believe honesty is the most important thing, not in just a relationship but in life as well. I don't have the best self-esteem, but I can promise you that I'm not looking for someone to "fix" me. I'm just not going to sit here and tell you I'm accepting of everything or that I work out every day or that my whole life is in order. I don't like drugs; I'm /not/ 420 friendly. I work out once a week if I feel like it. I have graduated college, but right now I'm only holding a part-time job.
I have tried online dating sites. I have tried meet-up groups. I have tried going to clubs or bars. I have tried going out to new places. I have tried a variety of things to meet someone. I wouldn't say that I /have/ to have someone in my life. If that were the case it wouldn't have been 2 years since I have dated someone. What I do enjoy having in my life is someone inspiring.
It may sound strange, but I want to inspire someone, and I'd love to meet someone who inspires me. Real love is something that develops, but inspiration is something that can be felt immediately. Life should be full of moments and people that inspire us so that we can define what love truly means to us. At least . . . that's how I feel about things.
I do a lot of things alone, mostly because all of my friends are already married or engaged, but doing things alone does not keep me from doing things at all. I like picnics and exploring abandoned places. I love wasting hours reading in a bookstore or watching movies at home. I love trying new foods, and on occasion I can be crafty. I love to dance, and I sing . . . almost constantly if I am comfortable. (This is a habit I've had all my life- what do I do?)
I'm pansexual, so I'm not a dye-to-the-wool lesbian if that matters to you, but I can assure you that I'm loyal and a one-person woman only. I am of average height and weight and I'd like to meet someone the same. If you send me a pic, I'd be happy to return the favor. Please do not contact me for anything sexual; I'm looking for a relationship, not a hook-up. I'd appreciate not having a relationship with anyone under 21 or over 30.
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. . . Thank you for reading this.
- Location: South Austin
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