I know this is a bit long, but at least you know what you're in for...
I'm looking for an ongoing FWB/NSA relationship. I've had a few of these kinds of relationships before (but this is the first time I am seeking one out). I don't want to deal with the drama and issues that seem so prevalent in regular relationships, but I also don't want to sacrifice the sexual end because of not being interested (& kind of busy) for a "normal" relationship. Honesty is important; I want to know what I'm walking into, although what you do in your time really has nothing to do with me. I would prefer it to be with someone I can actually get along with and can maybe even be friends with but there is no need to spend a bunch of time outside of the hookup (unless that's something that sounds like fun). You must be able to host as I have a young kid that I leave sleeping at home (I can host on occasion). I am NOT looking for someone to get involved in my son's life and hope that you can deal with me having a kid.
I tend to be drawn toward guys who are 6'+ and look like adult men (I like a broad chest or muscular men, sorry, just not as into real skinny guys). Bonus if you're over 6'3". I have been with a couple of guys who haven't entirely fit that mold so if your 5'9", try me. I love kissable lips and prefer someone that also enjoys kissing. You must enjoy a woman with curves (serious T&A). Maybe you're a boob-man? Maybe you're an ass-man? Maybe you're both (all the better)? I'd prefer a guy between 28 to 39 but I'm a bit flexible. Race doesn't matter (I've been known to gravitate toward darker skin tones but again, it doesn't matter). I am extremely sexual; I would ultimately love to find someone that was interested in having sex more than a couple times a week as I am a daily kinda girl (I know that's not always possible, just conveying my level of intensity). I prefer a man that likes to take some control in the bedroom but can also handle me getting somewhat aggressive and initiating things when it strikes me. I have had "minute" men and have absolutely hated that. (Although the occasional, well placed quicky, is hot.) Kissing is extremely important to me; it can make or break a good date or it can make good sex, fantastic...
Must be D&D free and protection at all times.
About me: I'm short and very curvy. 5'4", plus size but not round or morbidly obese. I'm white, have somewhat curly shoulder length blondish-brown hair, extremely blue eyes, full lips and am a bit of a smart ass. I love to laugh & have a good time. I grew up a cabinetmaker's daughter so I was taught to be very handy and self-reliant. I guess he also taught me how to be a bit of a smart ass and to often be liberal with the sarcasm. I really enjoy a smart and witty conversation, but I also love just getting down and dirty, no conversation needed, if you know what I mean. I love to laugh & have fun and try to limit my time with people that don't. I drink socially but do not smoke. I am very easy going and laid back and while I do not partake, I'm 420 friendly.
My catch... I am married, I left him 8 months ago and am in the middle of the divorce (no chance of reconciliation, or him showing up -he's on the other side of the country). We do have a 4 year old son together, whom I have custody of. I prefer to leave my son out of things. I can escape after bedtime and can do adult things then; also, sometimes I am able to arrange for daytime or weekend time. I can host on occasion but because of the kid thing, you must be able to host most of the time. He is the reason NSA/ FWB are a necessity for me. I am NOT looking for a "new" daddy, I am looking for great sex and preferably on a regular basis.
Any questions? If interested, your pic gets mine. (I'm an adult and can handle cockshots, but please send a picture of your face.) If there is something there, we can meet and see if the chemistry works.
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