After having looked craigslist over a few times on a few separate occasions I've come to the conclusion that its okay to re-post the same ad up if you don't like the responses the first time around. So I'm going to leave this message intact in its entirety... even the part about being at work. If you get a little confused.... I originally wrote this a few days back while I was at work and now here I am re-posting it. Have at a long ass read and hopefully I'll hear from you when you're done!
Pre. P.S. I did cheat and add the line about tattoos way down yonder... My bad >_<
Heh so I'm a little bored waiting on an email at work and figured I would pass the time by posting in the oh so amazing world of craigslist...
I'm interested in finding friends and a possible relationship. Not interested in hookups and have no plans of getting involved sexually with anyone unless I'm in a relationship with them... Pretty over that whole random hookup stuff.
So what about me... I guess I'll handle this with bullet points since that seems like the easiest way to do it...
-I'm 22 years old
-Stand 6'
-Have a slim/athletic build. Fitness and diet are a fun part of my life
-I do smoke 420 from time to time
-Not against harder drugs like E on select special occasions (I say this because I've done them in the past and know I'll party again in the future. Only do it with those close to me as I'm not a huge party/big group kind of guy)
-Sarcasm is probably my first language
-I'm pretty high energy when I go out in public
-I can be damn outgoing and with the right people am never shy (people who don't know me mistake me for a dick/asshole at times as I can say most anything)
-I'm too honest about myself, my life, and anything/anyone around me (I personally don't think one can be too honest but it has gotten me into trouble in the past so who knows)
-I've got a brain and I know how to use it. If you know something I don't I'm never against looking stupid and letting you teach me something new
-I'm very open minded and usually extremely accepting of people (I know I'm anything but perfect. Everyone has a past and everyone has flaws)
-I'm told I trust people too easy... It has gotten me into fucked up situations in the past but it is who I am... That trust is easy as hell to lose though and will probably never come back if the situation is bad enough...
So yea there's some stuff about me.. There's lots more I'm sure but I need to leave some stuff to talk about during the whole "getting to know each other" phase.
Now what about those things I would like to find in someone? I guess I'll just go at it with those bullet points again since it was easy enough the first time... This one will be a little harder, as I have no set traits that MUST be present in someone, but this will serve as a basic outline if nothing else.
-Age... Don't really care. Just be able to relate to someone my age.
-Height... Again I don't really care but if I had to give a range I would say 5'-5'8" or so. It's always cute to have someone who can serve as a standing chin rest.
-TATTOOSSSS :) I love them!
-The physical traits... Ok I really don't think I'm too shallow but go easy on me if this ends up being the longest bullet. I'm most attracted to skinny or skinny/athletic girls. I'm no twig myself but as far as the average goes for guys I'm pretty slim. I would like to be able to pick you up and toss you around (lol I dunno... Not in a I'm gonna kill you way). There are extremes with skinny but I'm going to refrain from setting limits because everyone may have different standards... What's a twig to me may seem perfect to someone else.
-The most important thing is your brain... You don't need to be smart as hell but you should always be open to learning.
-Have goals for your life... I don't judge no matter what you want to be so long as you are following your dreams/goals.
-You don't need to smoke 420 but don't be against me doing it... I mainly like to smoke with those I'm close to though, so it would be nice.
-Don't be against harder drugs but don't be a druggie. As I said above... I see myself doing them a very select number of times in my future and it would be great if it was with you (assuming your one of my chosen close people)
-Please don't party a lot or be the type to just disappear without a word for days on end... I'm big on communication and even if your away it would be nice to know what's up and be able to talk with you a bit...
-Be high energy too! Not like a spaz but be outgoing and upbeat. I want to find someone that can match me and not be sitting there thinking I'm weird because I'm so outgoing. Also it would be cool if you were the type who could just come up with ideas of activities or make up for my lack of energy when I'm having an off day. I'll do the same if you ever end up in a slump.
Mhh yea and now I'm bored of this too... It's not so easy typing all this up on my phone. Just email me if you wanna talk! I can send pictures and don't really care if you send one right away or not. I'm in no sort of rush with this... Just gonna chill and go with the flow.
Hope to hear from someone great.
Oh and just a note... I let very few people in and have only a select number of people who get close to me... So don't feel bad if at first I seem somewhat distant or shy... Even if I don't let you in right away I still warm up pretty quick :)
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