As you might have guessed from the title, I am a biseuxal female who uses CL as a way to look for others who share my orientation and interests. Sometimes I am looking for an NSA hook-up (read: girl/girl one night stand) but in general, I am trying to find other single girls like me that might like me and like what I like when I am with them like that. I posted here dozens of times last year and never got one real, white, bi girl to respond so I gave up. Now I have decided to try again.
I have already gotten about 50 responses to this post. Most of them are fakes or bots using the 'write me at my real e-mail' scam but some were real girls who did attach pics but, every one of them was married or involved so, let me put this right here at the top:
I AM LOOKING FOR SINGLE GIRLS ONLY - NOT MARRIED BUT LOOKING, NOT MY BOYFRIEND JUST WANTS TO WATCH - SINGLE - SINGLE - SINGLE.
OK, back to the rest of my post - lol!
I have posted a few times and gotten a few hundred responses each time. After weeding through the spam bots, the pic collectors and the very sad little boys playing the usual pathetic net games, I come up with a few real girls - the only problem is every one of them is black. I have nothing against blacks but they just don't turn me on at all. To each her own! I did meet a really cute, sexy mixed girl and she was wonderful (I miss you sweetie) so, if you are 'mixed' (which always seems to mean black and something else), feel free to write and maybe it will work out but, PLEASE, leave the ghetto attitude and street slang at home.
So, I am wondering, is anyone reading this post an actual white girl - or Asian or Spanish or anything other than black who is single (meaning no bf or fb or other male in your life trying to get into mine), bisexual (meaning you like boys and girls and are not against meeting my guy and letting him know who I am hanging out with) and looking to meet (not on cam or chat - for real, in person, face to face) soon (as in this week or next, not after 500 rounds of e-mail tag or when you get parole)?
I know about the usual sex sites and swingers clubs but they are just not my scene. I have a wonderful husband who knows about, supports and occasionally joins in my desire to be with other girls. He knew when we met what I was into and never had a problem with it (or the rest of me it seems - or at least that is what I think the ring means - right?) So, I am not looking for couple, dykes, studs, butch lesbians or anyone else who wants to change my mind or argue about what I like. I am just trying to find another in shape white bi chick who is single, 420 friendly, a little freaky, fun and outgoing who might want to get together and do...whatever...with me (or maybe us but, really, me!).
I am sure 99% of the people reading this are not 'cute bi white chicks' but, I will read all responses just in case someone might have any advice, offers, insight or whatever? Thoughts about web sites or safe clubs where we can both go and I can try to hook up or am I just being too picky or...???
Oh, by the way, if you are a cute, 20s bi girl who reads CL and is interested in more than just sending e-mail advice (as in: replying that you want to hook up), please send more than just 'hi - lets meet' in your e-mail. Tell me something about you and what you are into. Don't use ALL CAPS and try to make all the sentences line up on the screen the same way you meant them to in your head...oh, oh, oh...and include a clear, recent, face and body pic (no nudes) that does not look like you stole it from a porn site (step away from the keyboard mister!).
OH, let me say this again to be sure every knows IF YOU ARE LOOKING TO MEET BUT DONT HAVE A PIC WITH YOUR FIRST E-MAIL, I WILL NOT RESPOND. I am not looking for e-mail tag and dont have patience for girls who arent smart enough to follow simple directions. Dont send your myspace or facebook - attach the actual pic to the e-mail so I can see who I am talking to and know you are at least as smart as a 5th grader.
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